100 actions

Pack in experiences 

  1. Adventures and people you shared with 

  2. Mess around have fun 

  3. Fully live life 

  4. Make incredible memories every single day 

  5. Make days memorable 

  6. Fun and laughter 

  7. Treat people how you want to be treated 

  8. Respect 

  9. Be Kind and sensitive 

  10. Find the joy, life is happening right now 

  11. Thoughtful 

  12. Patient, kind, understanding 

  13. Just presence, awareness, true sanity 

  14. Take time with everything, no rush 

  15. Compromise 

  16. 80 / 20 naughty 

  17. Eye contact builds safety.

  18. 30 % slower ex exercise 

  19. Slow down slow down slow down 

  20. Enjoy being chit chat 

  21. We’re a team 

  22. I don’t have to be perfect to be chosen 

  23. Doesn’t have to be exciting or dramas just present 

  24. Glad you in my life 

  25. Hug until she let’s go 

  26. Share the things you appreciate about her 

  27. Slow down to feel

  28. Notice how much they mean to me 

  29. Reality checked…. Where is my head at 

  30. Make magical experiences 

  31. Get her to glow

  32. Notice her beauty 

  33. Special nights out dress up date night 

  34. Journal together 

  35. She comes first 

  36. A woman’s nervous system needs:consistency, presence, calmness, understanding, patience, attunement.

  37. Does she feel safe in our relationship 

  38. Create a calm nervous system 

  39. Have fun 

  40. Fun, peace, non rushed life, enjoy this second 

  41. Surprise, food or drink 

  42. How have we bonded today 

  43. Respond warm and slowly

  44. Show appreciation little things, presence and emotional safety 

  45. Slow down and appreciate the little things 

  46. Compliment 

  47. Seen and safe, if hungry feed her 

  48. Notice small things 

  49. Give presence take her photo 

  50. Create emotional safety every day

  51. Keep giving 

  52. Love is calm 

  53. Slow Down

  54. Balance ambition with connection and presence 

  55. Pictures are very important 

  56. Feel 80% at peace in relationship 

  57. Love is daily safety 

  58. Respect her boundaries 

  59. Give her a foot massage 

  60. Small acts of kindness 

  61. Her career and projects are as important as mine 

  62. Cry and screamed in each others arms 

  63. What are my actions communicating 

  64. Love, family, children, compassion and kindness 

  65. Keep no record of wrong, kindness, heart, love 

  66. Kids and relationship most important 

  67. How to take care of people 

  68. Don’t be selfish 

  69. Think about other people more than myself   

  70. Read together 

  71. Be big in the little things  

  72. You don’t know whether you will see this person again……make, it great 

  73. How is her nervous system around me?

  74. How is my nervous system around her?

  75. Be there for her vulnerable side 

  76. Connection, peace, presence and love 

  77. Bring each other peace

  78. Softness, presence, connection 

  79. Let love in 

  80. Freedom is walking side by side 

  81. Be with her 100%

  82. Hug at sunsets and sunrises 

  83. Be together 

  84. Build moments we both feel together 

  85. Create memories, take pictures 

  86. Being free with someone, create meaningful experiences 

  87. Create shared experiences and build connection 

  88. Two hearts understanding each other

  89. Bring peace in our relationship 

  90. Love is quiet consistency 

  91. Make her feel special 

  92. Protect her peace

  93. Time is precious 

  94. You have responsibilities as a bf, more than yourself

  95. Romance

  96. Look into her eyes

  97. Hold her silence

  98. Listen fully 

  99. Tell fears, dreams

  100. Face challenges instead of shutting down

  101. Massage her shoulders and feet

  102. Plan a day just for her 

  103. Hold her hand in public 

  104. Touch her with intention

  105. Encourage her independence 

  106. Let her know she’s safe with me 

  107. Nurture love

  108. Emotional safety is the foundation of connection 

  109. Kind during conflict 

  110. Love is shown in small daily actions 

  111. Tone shapes connection more than your words 

  112. When in doubt choose softness 

  113. Laugh with her 

  114. Choose her every day

  115. Protect and nurture her

  116. Empathy 

  117. Responsibility 

  118. Tenderness 

  119. Kindness

  120. Not control, or perfect 

  121. Presence 

  122. Gentleness 

  123. Awareness 

  124. Be soft 

  125. Take care of her health like it’s your own 

  126. Take care of her emotions like it’s your own 

  127. Take care of her spirit like it’s your own 

  128. Listen without fixing

  129. Speak appreciation of her 

  130. Protect her peace

  131. Hold space for her emotions 

  132. Share my inner world

  133. Give without keeping score

  134. Be consistent 

  135. Compliment her soul not just her looks

  136. Have rituals of love

  137. Apologize fast

  138. Be her safe home 

  139. Celebrate her wins like they’re your own 

  140. Show love often 

  141. Communicate during conflict, not escape

  142. Grow together 

  143. See her inner child 

  144. Keep choosing her 

  145. Look at her like it’s the first time 

  146. Learn what calms her 

  147. Support her emotionally during her cycles and hard times 

  148. Show appreciation for her effort 

  149. Love her in her shadows

  150. Breathe with her 

  151. See her essence not her moods

  152. Touch her touch before her body 

  153. Apologize with my actions 

  154. See love as a practice 

  155. Say sorry

  156. Talk about the little things 

  157. Care deeply 

  158. What consequences my actions have 

  159. Pay attention to my emotions and feelings 

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